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Pills don’t give you skills: why ADHD coaching matters

Pills don’t give you skills: why ADHD coaching matters

Getting an ADHD diagnosis can feel a bit like walking into a really messy room. You know something’s not right, but the chaos is so overwhelming that you don’t even know where to begin.

When I first started ADHD medication, it was like putting on a pair of glasses. Suddenly, I could see the mess more clearly. The fog lifted a little. I could focus better, and life felt slightly more manageable. But it wasn’t the magic cure I’d read about – not even close.

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Would you choose to have ADHD again if you could live your life over?

Would you choose to have ADHD again if you could live your life over?

It’s a powerful question – and one I often reflect on, both personally and with the women I support in my coaching practice.

How does ADHD show up in your life, and how do you feel about it now, knowing what you know?

For me, the answer is clear. Yes – if I had the chance to live my life over, I would absolutely choose to have ADHD again.

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Why do so many people with ADHD feel lazy, stupid, or not good enough?

For many of us with ADHD, we’ve lived our lives with the common, painful belief that we are lazy, stupid, or simply not good enough. This inner dialogue can be incredibly damaging, shaping self-esteem and limiting our potential. But why do these thoughts exist in the first place? What contributes to these beliefs, and how can they be reframed into a healthier perspective?

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Why do those of us with ADHD apologise so much? And what can we do about it?

Have you ever caught yourself apologising for things you don’t need to? Saying “sorry” when you’re not at fault, or even for just existing? If you have ADHD this might feel all too familiar. It’s a pattern that many of us struggle with, but why is it so common, and how can we break free from it?

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Accountability and neurodivergence: Why having ADHD is not an excuse for poor behaviour

In recent years, there has been a much-needed spotlight on ADHD, leading to greater awareness, understanding, and support for those who are neurodivergent. 

This shift has opened doors for meaningful conversations about how these conditions impact daily life, relationships, and mental health. However, it’s essential to address a complex issue within this discussion: accountability. While neurodivergence can explain cha

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ADHD and oversharing

Many of us with ADHD find ourselves sharing too much, too soon, or in situations that may feel inappropriate in hindsight. While the act of oversharing may feel like a genuine attempt to connect, it often leads to rumination, self-doubt, and feelings of low self-esteem or worth.

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